The search for love seems pertinent to many. Before we consider the nature of love with another, we must acknowledge it is our nature. Love exists within and once this recognition is garnered we no longer seek for love but may flow with the energy. We often learn to constantly seek love and inner fulfillment from external factors. This is contradictory considering the search for a particular emotion or experience will push it from reach. The act of seeking produces the perpetuation of desire. Instead of moving directly into the emotion we desire, we await the arrival of external circumstance.
The point of power always exists in the present. When you begin to reclaim the power of mind and emotion you can access all you desire in the moment. Instead of awaiting the moment of perfection you will discover bliss in the manifestation of your current existence. As consciousness expands, you begin to recognize love is always present. The nature of creation is that of love and the only way you can ever lose connection is in forgetting. Even in the absence of awareness, love still remembers your name.
When you await another to love you in fullness you discard the truth of identity. Love is the nature of the soul and is forever at your whim. Whether you choose to embrace the essence you hold is entirely within choice. As we begin to comprehend the grace of our identity the action of another will become irrelevant. Instead you begin to embrace the love and joy you held at fingertip. Instead you live in unison with love and it guides your path.
Searching for validation in the arms of another is the equivalent of peering into a broken mirror. All the wounds and insecurity they hold will eventually be reflected onto you causing greater distortion. What once became a search for love will become a dance of wounds. These primal issues begin to foster a sense of mistrust in the nature of love. How can love be so painful? Shields are built in defense of what was once the purity of spirit.
When seeking for love it will arrive in divine time.
You never receive a gift in physical incarnation a moment before the soul is ready.
A connection that has not been fostered on the foundation of self-love will crumble. The need for another to bolster your image will always end in loss. Eventually you are confronted with the self you were unable to hold initially. You will discover it was your own arms that you longed, love lay dormant. Had you turned within you would begin to recognize precisely what was in need of healing.
In matters of the heart a significant illusion is that you hold control. Perhaps the most important lesson to master is allowing love to flow however is necessary. Allow connections to be what they are without imposing fear and expectation. So many loves lay broken beneath the burden of our wounding. Those who attempt to guide love eventually arise lost and confused. It is impossible to enter the center of the heart and return with our mind intact. The mind poses the greatest hindrance in the expression of love. When we attempt to control the unfolding of connection, it severs the exchange of emotion.
When seeking for love it will arrive in divine time. You never receive a gift in physical incarnation a moment before the soul is ready. The conscious mind has its own conception of what you need and when it must arise. But the spirit operates independent of social conditioning. The soul is not remotely concerned with the acceptable age of marriage and commitment. In fact it will rarely recognize the validity of commitment, only love. The heart connects through reverence when it finds a home. The particular of expression of the individual is of little importance compared to the spirit.
Love at first sight is merely the recognition of the beloved. In truth, it is not love at first sight but love that has transcended the barriers of time. You recognise the essence of true love even if the costume has changed. This is precisely why it is possible to meet another and instantly feel as sense of overwhelming love beyond what you feel in an existing connection. The soul has found a counterpart and this energy can be difficult to ignore. It will defy logic and can make the most analytic begin to question their sanity. Love will sweep clean all that is contradiction to its presence. All the fear and limiting beliefs you have held will move to the surface for healing. This is precisely why many can develop a fear of surrendering to the presence of love in a spiritual connection.
You have the choice to chase for love or nurture the essence within. Once full of your personal value and grace the need to consistently search for love will lessen. Instead you begin to experience the fullness of identity. Love will begin to seek you since you have moved into alignment with its vibration. Surrender to the divine plan of love that is currently at play in your world. This divine matchmaker knows exactly who needs to cross your path and for what purpose. There is beauty in all forms of connection, especially those that move the soul.
